Thursday, September 6, 2012

Zapped Libido

Menopause sure gets rid of the sex drive.

I've been on a slow decline for the  last couple years.  I realized a few weeks ago ...... i really don't have any interest anymore.  I mean sometimes, but its nothing I can't take care of myself.  And the thing is, I don't feel like I'm missing it.
what I do miss is the feeling of wanting it.  I used to have sex nearly every night!
not with this partner, my now husband, but in the past.  I would crave it, wait for it, use it.  Now ...................... meh

Yes, I have a few different theories about this odd transformation of my sex life not all of them end in menopause.

but still .......................... Meh .....................

2 comments:

holymotherofgod said...

Much like post birth. Weird to suddenly have zero interest. Repulsion actually. And previously, same: daily & into it! Its coming back but ugh, now it takes effort to get there mentally and its less often. Course theres someone we have to work around...

Kristi Lou said...

i was celibet after kid was born, so I don't know. For 3 years. and those were the randiest years of my life. That was also the beginning of peri-menopause for me, so the hormones were at full tilt all the time